Dear Ryder,
I don't mind listening.  I'm glad you came and talked to me today.
Don't hesitate to do that.  It's really hard having a secret that
not everyone knows about.  It's hard to find people to talk to 
about it.  About Lawrence, maybe you're looking at this the wrong
way.  Instead of just avoiding him until you have the nerve to tell
him, maybe you could hang out with him until you have the nerve.
By avoiding him you not only don't get to see him, but you alienate
him.  I would have said this today, but I just thought about it.
I'll see you around I'm sure.

TTFN :)
Jacqueline (thanks for consistently calling me that btw)